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No Flex…Zone: Quiet 
Confidence with Purpose

A RESeT resilience-building experience

To equip youth with the mindset and tools to navigate peer pressure, bullying, and self-doubt by developing quiet confidence, emotional control, and a strong internal compass rooted in purpose—not performance.

Target Age Group: 10-15 years old

What kids will learn:

  • Learn how to build quiet confidence without needing to show off

  • Practice staying calm and grounded when faced with conflict or bullying

  • Develop resilience and bounce-back strategies for tough moments

  • Discover how to lead with purpose, not popularity.

WHO IT’S FOR

Middle and high school students navigating social pressure, bullying, or identity struggles — especially in environments where self-expression is challenged by fear, judgment, or insecurity.

WHAT IT TEACHES

  • The power of calm presence over performative confidence

  • How to stay emotionally grounded in the face of conflict or online drama

  • Tools to self-reflect and set personal boundaries without confrontation

  • Practices to own your story, not someone else’s expectations

WHY IT MATTERS

Too many kids confuse strength with swagger, or silence with shame. NO FLEX ZONE teaches that confidence doesn’t need to be loud — it needs to be real. It helps youth embrace stillness as strength and teaches them that walking away is sometimes the most powerful move of all.

TESTIMONIALS

“Coach Phil…you are the best role model coach any kid could ever ask for. What is done during scheduled practices and non scheduled interactions is what put these kids in position to succeed.”

—Matt Strength, 2023

Coach Phil, “You are an amazing coach and bring the enthusiasm everywhere you go.  You push everyone around you to give it their all and then more to make sure they are the best they can be.  I wish there were more people like you making a positive difference in our community.”

—Brent Sheena,

Player Parent 2025

“Not everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing can be changed that is not faced.”

—James Baldwin

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